QUOTE (Lord Madhammer @ Aug 20 2008, 12:53 PM)

Your buddy was at fault there FYI. Sending something expensive with no insurance / delivery confirmation is just asking for it.

, I told him that and he realizes now to build that cost into the shipping.
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I'm just glad that sellers can't hold my feedback hostage anymore because they're just trying to cover their asses. I've always paid for eBay stuff right away, regardless of instant payment requirements. And for me to get negative feedback for something I didn't do = bullsh*t.

also, feedback shouldn't be retaliatory. HOWEVER, I see buyers all the time that take advantage of the fact that they won't get negative feedback. That is also bullsh*t. If you want my honest opinion, I think eBay set this system up not for buyers, but to end their contract with SquareDeal and cut costs.
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Cadogen: you can still report a non-paying buyer, right? Then what's the problem? That hard up for cash?
Not hard up for cash. Why should someone buying off your auction take 2-3wks to pay? I don't sell to "J Wellington Wimpy"s.

IF you agree to buy the product, you also agree to pay for the product in a prompt fashion. 7+ days is not prompt. That's uncollateraled layaway.
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Somebody not paying for an item is an inconvenience. Somebody not sending you what you paid for is a screw job.
So it's OK for the buyer to breach their contractual agreement? That's not what eBay's terms say.